32 Easy Kid-Friendly Meals Your Family Will Love (Even Your Picky Eater!)
Becoming a mom and realizing I was responsible for raising a healthful eater sent me back to school to get a nutrition degree. Obviously this is a bit extreme, and to be clear I was planning on going back to school anyway. But the responsibility of feeding small children multiple times a day, every day can feel like a lot of pressure.
It doesn’t help when your 4-year-old is refusing the snack he loved last week. Or there’s a meltdown at the dinner table, which you know in your heart has nothing to do with the food, but you’re taking it personally anyway. Not to mention your own tastes. You don’t want to eat chicken nuggets every night or have to make separate meals for four different people. You’re not a short-order cook.
The good news is that most kids will eat when they’re hungry, and kids of almost all ages are getting more than enough protein. I focus more on vegetables and fiber, and letting kids eat what they want from what’s on the table. Brown rice and chickpea pasta are great substitutes to boost fiber. If that works for you, great! But some kids don’t love the swap when they’re used to something else. I’d rather them eat more white pasta, and make up the difference with a corn tortilla another time.
Recipes sometimes encourage blending veggies into sauces to hide them. I’m not above a little misdirection, but I actually don’t love the flavor profiles you often end up with — it’s all a little muddy-tasting. I’d rather a three-ingredient corn soup that tastes clearly of what it is. There is no need to pack six vegetables into one bowl for the sake of efficiency.
Both my kids are big on texture. Except one prefers a discernible bite to his food — don’t ever threaten him with an avocado. The other loves mush — soft and supple and spoonable. Not everyone gets what they prefer for every meal, but we do what we can for each other. This is not a one-size-fits all list. But I have taken into consideration lots of different variables I’ve come up against over the years. And that includes making it easy for you.
Not every meal has to be optimized. Because guess what? You get to do it again tomorrow. Some days are more balanced than others, and that’s perfectly fine. It’s the long game, folks — you can’t go to war running on fumes. Choose your battles; you’ll enjoy dinner more that way!